Paul
Goble
Staunton, December 10 – Debate about
a possible new Russian law against family violence and several recent horrific
examples of child abuse in the North Caucasus has prompted experts in that
region to examine its causes. They suggest that abuse there is the product of
both all-Russian trends and certain regionally specific features.
What is most interesting is that
some argue that the rising incidence of child abuse in the North Caucasus is
the product of the breakdown of patriarchal society and the extended families
that prevented it in the past while others say that violence reflects the very
essence of patriarchal relationships and that their breakdown is the only way
to end such violence.
Libkan Bazayeva, head of the Women
for Development organization, argues that child abuse are connected with the
practice of taking children from their mothers in cases of divorce and putting
them under the supervision of people, men and women, who do not feel especially
attached to them (kavkaz-uzel.eu/articles/343351/).
After a divorce, customary law gives
men the power to take children from their mothers and then leave them under the
supervision of other more distant relatives.
These children often become superfluous for those who are supposed to
take care of them, and this “defenselessness provokes violence.” She hopes a new law on family violence will
limit this practice.
Zemfira Dzadayeva, the president of
the Mountain Woman Foundation in North Ossetia, says that violence against
children is often used by women who have experienced violence when they were
growing up. That cycle must be broken if
children are to grow up in safety, she continues.
Both Bazayeva and Dzalayeva link the
increase in violence over children to events in the region over the last
several decades: “As a result of war, there has become more cruelty and human
life has begun to be valued less. Fifty to 100 years ago, such events simply
could not have occurred. Everyone lived in extended family communities” which
acted as constraints.
Svetlana Anokhina, a Daghestani
journalist and human rights activist, disagrees. She argues that violence against
children is “a typical characteristic of patriarchal societies” and that the
continued existence of such family arrangements in the North Caucasus is a
major reason why there is so much child abuse.
“The system of ‘chief/subordinate’ operates
here with the complete approval of society. Women live in exactly the same
milieu and follow the same rules. They do not resist force used against them
and consider the use of force against children as appropriate as well,” the
Daghestani says.
She points out that in the most
horrific cases, where a women beats a child, observers typically ignore the
role of men in these situations.” They forget
that men are involved either as models of such behavior or as enablers who are
not prepared to intervene when such violence does occur.
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