Paul
Goble
Staunton, August 24 – Only one
orphanage graduate in ten in Russia lives to age 40, far less than the average of
the mid-60s (miloserdie.ru/news/fleshmob-u-detej-dolzhna-byt-semya-zapustil-bf-arifmetika-dobra/).
In part, this reflects the fact that many children put in orphanages by their
living parents are handicapped in some way. But only in part.
The overwhelming reason is that
Russian orphanages do not teach their residents life skills, and consequently,
when they are released in their late teens, the new adults are still at the
level of children in many respects and do not know how to exist in the larger
society and the programs the Russian state has for them are underfunded and
ineffective.
Formally, Russian law requires that orphanage
graduates be given their own apartment in the same region where they grew up or
their rent paid. But that often doesn’t happen.
In Novosbirsk, for example, of the 1285 graduates, only 28 last year
were provided with the housing the law says they are supposed to get.
At that rate – and assuming that
there are no new orphanage graduates appearing – those on the current list will
all receive housing in 46 years – long after many of them have died. Many of those waiting are effectively thrown
on the streets and hide out in vacant apartments fearing for their future.
But that is only part of the
problem. Even those who do get housing don’t know how to apply for work, use
public transport, get medical help or do many of the things that society
expects its adults to be able to do. In the words of the small group of
activists who try to help them, “no one needs ‘yesterday’s children’s home
inmates’” once they are released.
The nine members of the Be Human
group in Novosibirsk tell Elena Sycheva of the SibReal portal that
almost no one cares what happens to these child-adults and that their group
does what it can, not by providing money to these unfortunates but by listening
to their problems and helping them learn the ropes of adult life (sibreal.org/a/30069476.html).
In the orphanages,
most of the children have enough to eat and a warm place to sleep; but they are
not provided with the life skills they need on their release. And once they are released, these
child-adults “quickly come to understand that no one needs them. They find it
hard to adapt [because] they do not know how to do anything,” one volunteer
says.
The Be Human group tries to help. It
doesn’t ask for money or give any: its members simply try to provide human
assistance. As another volunteer says, “we do not have big successes in the generally
accepted meaning of the word. There is no story with a happy end when someone gets
into a university or is happily married.”
“But our children are alive, they
have children, those who are sick get help.
We don’t work any miracles. This is simply life.” But these good people are doing more than
anyone else so that these unfortunates can live. That is no small thing.
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